Have you ever reached a point where feeling unseen and unheard became unbearable?

Or given everything you had, only to be misunderstood and underappreciated?

I’ve been there. I know the exhaustion of living on autopilot, feeling stagnant, and losing the spark of growth and creation. Growing up among nine siblings in Southwest Michigan, I was raised by loving parents who filled our lives with learning, music, and a strong sense of service. But amidst the chaos of family responsibilities, I lost sight of myself. The weight of caring for my siblings overshadowed my own needs.

Coupled with the burden of childhood trauma, I grappled with feelings of being unseen and unacknowledged. Despite appearing strong and accomplished, I was crumbling inside. Joining the Air Force was my escape and my chance to explore beyond my limits. As the first woman in my family to serve, I sought freedom not only for myself but for humanity. Yet, even with the triumphs and missions, I wrestled with an internal struggle, searching for my true identity. Becoming a single mom during my service brought a renewed sense of purpose, but it also added layers of complexity. Relocations and the isolation of familiarity intensified my internal voids. I found myself torn between my upbringing and the evolving truths I was discovering. Marriage seemed like the ideal solution from the outside, but it concealed a reality that was far from authentic. Despite various successes,

I realized I was living a life misaligned with my soul. It took a breakdown to awaken me to the fact that I had long betrayed my true essence. The journey back to myself was daunting. I had to confront neglected self-care and boundaries that had eroded. But this breakdown became my breakthrough.

I committed to rewriting my narrative, freeing myself from limitations that had hindered my growth. This journey wasn’t just about personal healing; it was a calling to guide others. I sought knowledge and certifications to empower others in their pursuit of authenticity. Creating 'Be True to Your Best You' became my mission—a beacon for those navigating their own paths to self-discovery. Embracing disruption, leaving a successful career, and living my principles were conscious steps toward authenticity. My purpose became clear: to elevate others through their transformations and drive their growth amidst challenges. Your journey awaits, inviting you to uncover your own story. Embrace your truth, chart your path, and step boldly into your power. Your canvas is ready for the strokes of resilience, expansion, and the freedom that comes with embracing your most authentic self. I joined the United States Air Force straight out of high school, stepping into a legacy of honorable service as the first woman in my family to do so. Serving was an immense honor. I pushed beyond my physical limits to safeguard not just personal freedom but also humanity’s freedom. Through the challenges of my service, I discovered profound truths that required me to surpass my known capabilities. It demanded immense resilience, a willingness to confront hard truths, and an inner fire that refused to be extinguished. During my military tenure, I also embraced the journey of single motherhood, which added new dimensions to my purpose. This responsibility breathed new life into me, though it also meant separation from my little hero when duty called. The demands of relocating to Florida separated me from this inspiration, and I struggled with feelings of emptiness. In my new environment, I felt the pull of my upbringing in a deeply religious community. Although my personal growth diverged from those beliefs, I sought to reintegrate for the sake of offering my son a supportive framework. Then came Prince Charming, seemingly perfect but hiding deep, dark secrets. Despite the fairy tale facade, the marriage was a veneer for a reality that didn’t align with my truth. We married quickly, had seven beautiful children, and I balanced multiple roles, striving to meet societal expectations. Despite external successes,

I felt lost. I ran businesses, managed teams, and led others, but internally, I was on autopilot, perpetuating an image of perfection while ignoring my true self. My breakdown became a breakthrough, a turning point where I could no longer ignore my inner voice. It was time to prioritize myself and honor my true essence. I shed tears, allowed my emotions to surface, and committed to a profound change. Rediscovering my purpose, connecting with my ancestors’ legacy, and showing up authentically became my mission. I shifted focus to leading others and serving humanity from a place of overflow, not depletion.

I invested in top-notch courses, earned certifications, and created the ecosystem I had long sought for myself.

In 2020, I left Corporate America to fully commit to my truth and purpose, creating a platform where I could be my authentic self every day. Life became about embracing disruption, redefining resistance, and seizing control of my personal power. I aimed to live consciously, embodying personal transformation and guiding others to rediscover their extraordinary essence.

I transformed challenges into opportunities, helping others do the same through probing questions and fostering personal discovery. My joy lies in elevating humanity, impacting one person at a time, and illuminating the path to freedom and light in each remarkable existence. Embrace your journey, uncover your truth, and step boldly into your most authentic self.